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Build Self-Awareness Skills That Stick for Life

When kids understand themselves, everything changes—how they think, feel, and connect with others.

 

Self-Awareness Course for Kids Ages 10–14

Give your child the tools to grow emotionally and confidently. Exploring You: A Journey to Self-Awareness is Bloomster’s expert-led self-awareness course for kids that helps children ages 10 to 14 recognize emotions, reflect on values, and strengthen emotional intelligence.


This structured online self-awareness course combines reflection, psychology, and hands-on activities to help kids develop confidence, resilience, and positive self-talk—designed by licensed child psychologists and rooted in research.

 

 

Why Self-Awareness Skills Matter

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Preteens and teens experience emotional ups and downs, shifting friendships, and growing independence.

 

A lack of self-awareness can lead to:

 

  • icon Overwhelming emotions and communication struggles
  • icon Difficulty making thoughtful choices or setting personal boundaries
  • icon Anxiety, people-pleasing, or low self-esteem
  • icon Unclear values and impulsive behavior

With the right support, your child can:

 

  • icon Understand how emotions and thoughts shape behavior
  • icon Set boundaries and make confident, values-aligned decisions
  • icon Strengthen emotional intelligence and self-worth
  • icon Develop lasting resilience and mental clarity

Inside the Self-Awareness Course Journey

Your child will explore personal growth through three key developmental themes, each packed with tools for real-life application.

Understanding Thoughts & Values

Kids begin by exploring how their thoughts shape their feelings and actions. Through metacognitive exercises, mindfulness, and reflective journaling, they learn to pause, notice their internal world, and recognize what truly matters to them. These early habits lay the foundation for emotional clarity and purpose-driven choices.

Understanding Thoughts & Values
Introspection and Social Influences

Introspection and Social Influences

In this section, kids explore the many forces that shape their identity—from mentors and media to friendships and family. They reflect on their personal goals and learn to evaluate external influences thoughtfully. By understanding what drives their decisions, kids begin to choose with intention and stay true to who they are.

Emotional Intelligence and Self-Compassion

Here, your child strengthens their emotional vocabulary and builds powerful tools for resilience. They’ll learn the Cognitive Triangle to understand how thoughts, emotions, and actions connect. Through guided strategies, they’ll practice managing stress, reframing negative self-talk, and communicating with confidence and empathy. It all adds up to stronger inner balance and lasting emotional health.

Emotional Intelligence and Self-Compassion

What Kids Gain from This Self-Awareness Program

This is more than just a class—it’s a complete online self-awareness training program designed specifically for kids. Through this engaging and supportive experience, children will learn to make the connection between their thoughts, emotions, and actions. They’ll discover how to manage and express their emotions in healthy, constructive ways. The program also helps kids set meaningful goals, reflect on personal values, and recognize negative thought patterns so they can begin to reframe them positively.



As they move through the lessons, they’ll build strong communication and relationship skills, practice mindfulness, and strengthen their emotional resilience. This self-awareness coaching program meets every child where they are, offering the guidance they need to grow with confidence.

What Kids Gain from This Self-Awareness Program

Course Materials & Learning Tools

Your child will receive:

 

  • icon Guided journaling and self-reflection activities
  • icon Mindfulness and breathing practice videos
  • icon Emotion recognition tools and interactive games
  • icon Positive self-talk exercises and daily affirmations
  • icon Personalized self-care and boundary-setting templates
  • icon Parent discussion guides for deeper family connection

Every tool is age-appropriate and designed for everyday life.

Course Materials & Learning Tools

Earn Milestone Badges Along the Way

As kids complete each module, they earn digital badges for their progress. It’s a fun way to stay motivated and celebrate emotional growth.

Mirror Lynx – The Observer
Mirror Lynx – The Observer

The Mirror Lynx shows you who you are — your strengths, flaws, and feelings. It helps you look inside without fear.

 

Earn this badge by completing module 1 of this course.

Sea Serpent – The Deep Diver
Sea Serpent – The Deep Diver

The Sea Serpent dives where others avoid. It swims through feelings and patterns you’ve learned to explore.

 

Earn this badge by completing module 2 of this course.

Raven – The Reader
Raven – The Reader

The Raven reads between the lines. It guides you to trust the quiet truths inside you.

 

Earn this badge by completing module 3 of this course.

White Tiger – The Embracer
White Tiger – The Embracer

The White Tiger walks with calm pride. It knows its worth — and helps you embrace yours too.

 

Earn this badge by completing module 4 of this course.

Led by Experts in Child Psychology


This self-awareness course for kids is created by Dr. Kymberli Barker, a licensed child psychologist with over 20 years of experience in emotional development and child behavior. Backed by research in social-emotional learning, the course offers relatable, age-appropriate lessons that help kids build emotional intelligence, confidence, and everyday self-awareness in a way they can truly understand.

Kymberli Barker

How the Course Works

We’ve made it easy for your child to learn at their own pace—while you stay involved and encouraged.

 

Step 1

Sign Up

Begin with the first module of our online self-awareness course for kids — completely free.

Step 2

Learn Anytime

Lessons are self-paced and accessible online 24/7, so your child can learn at a rhythm that suits them best.

Step 3

Watch Them Grow

Week by week, see your child build self-awareness, emotional regulation, and lasting confidence.

Plans That Fit Your Family

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Free Plan

$0/month

Our Free Plan allows your child to access the first module of each course within Bloomster.


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Individual Plan

$19.99/month

Our Individual Plan allows one child to access the full suite of courses across the platform.


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Family Plan

$29.99/month

Our Family Plan allows 2 or more children to access the full suite of courses across the platform.


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 Frequently Asked Questions

Who is this self-awareness course for?

This course is designed specifically for kids and preteens ages 10 to 15 who want to build stronger emotional awareness, improve confidence, and better understand their own thoughts and behaviors. Whether your child is naturally reflective or still learning how to express emotions, this online self-awareness course provides age-appropriate tools to help them grow socially, emotionally, and mentally. It’s ideal for families looking for structured emotional development outside of traditional school curriculum.

Is this a live course or self-paced?

No, this is not a live program. Exploring You: A Journey to Self-Awareness is a self-paced online self-awareness course for kids, designed to be flexible for every family’s schedule. Your child can complete the lessons at their own pace, revisit any module, and engage with the material whenever it fits best. This format works well for kids who thrive on routine as well as those who prefer a go-at-your-own-speed learning style.

Does my child need to be struggling emotionally to benefit from this course?

Not at all. This course is for all kids—those who are doing well and those who may need extra support in understanding themselves or navigating emotional ups and downs. The self-awareness training program provides a safe, empowering space for children to explore their emotions, values, and decision-making. Even emotionally healthy kids benefit from improved self-reflection, emotional intelligence, and resilience-building tools.

Can I participate as a parent or caregiver?

While the course is designed for children to complete independently, you're welcome to stay engaged by checking in, asking about what they’re learning, or supporting their reflections at home. Many parents find that simply being available to listen and encourage open conversations strengthens the impact of the course. Your involvement—without needing to guide each step—can help your child feel supported while building self-awareness on their own terms.

How long does this self-awareness course take to complete?

Most children finish the course in approximately 2-4 weeks, depending on their pace. With 4 in-depth modules and 32 lessons, it’s designed for flexible, self-paced learning. Kids can revisit any module at any time, making it easy to absorb, reflect, and grow at their own rhythm. You’ll start seeing meaningful improvements in their self-regulation, self-reflection, and emotional expression as they move through the course.

How do I teach kids about self-awareness?

Teaching kids about self-awareness requires structured support, relatable content, and consistent practice. This course uses journaling prompts, mindfulness exercises, values identification, and real-life examples to help kids explore their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Rather than teaching in a top-down way, it helps children discover their internal world step by step—making the learning more meaningful and long-lasting. As a parent, you’ll get tools and conversation starters to continue that growth at home.

How can a child gain self-awareness at an early age?

Children build self-awareness when they’re encouraged to notice how they think, feel, and respond to situations. In this self-awareness training program, kids learn to name emotions, identify thought patterns, and connect choices to personal values. These foundational skills help them handle stress, communicate better, and become more emotionally independent—setting them up for long-term well-being.

At what age do kids develop self-awareness?

Basic self-awareness begins to form as early as age 5, but deeper emotional awareness—like understanding beliefs, values, and internal motivations—typically develops between ages 10 to 15. This age range is a key developmental window where structured self-awareness coaching can have a lasting impact. That’s why this course is tailored specifically for preteens and young teens.

What are the 4 key components of self-awareness?

This course teaches kids the four essential pillars of self-awareness:

  • icon Emotional Recognition – Identifying and naming emotions
  • icon Thought Monitoring – Understanding how thoughts shape actions
  • icon Values Alignment – Recognizing core beliefs and personal motivators
  • icon Self-Reflection – Looking inward to grow, learn, and build confidence Each of these is covered through interactive lessons and activities designed for kids.
What are the 5 stages of developing self-awareness?

The course supports your child through five core stages:

  • icon Emotional Awareness – Learning to identify feelings
  • icon Cognitive Awareness – Becoming conscious of thought patterns
  • icon Behavioral Reflection – Linking emotions to actions
  • icon Values Understanding – Exploring what matters personally
  • icon Self-Acceptance – Embracing imperfections and building confidence Kids move through these stages as they engage with journaling, discussions, and mindfulness-based activities.
What methods help build self-awareness in children?

Three of the most effective methods taught in this course are:

  • icon Mindfulness practice to develop present-moment awareness
  • icon Journaling and self-reflection to build clarity around thoughts and emotions
  • icon Values and goal mapping to align actions with personal beliefs These tools, along with expert guidance and family support, help kids build lasting emotional intelligence.

Support Your Child’s Self-Discovery

Give your child the support to understand themselves, express emotions confidently, and grow into emotionally strong, self-aware individuals. Start your free trial of Bloomster’s self-awareness course for kids today.